I sometimes wish I didn't care about people's problems that have nothing to do with me. But as a friend, I have to just to show that I'm always there and to understand what's up. When things go down hard, that's when it doesn't look so easy to me anymore. Where you're caught up in someone's problem and they expect you to comfort them in any way...it kind of sucks. You don't know what to say back when it gets worse. The best you can do is listen knowing you don't have the right words to say about it.
I hate that feeling only because as a person I feel useless towards them when comes to it. If there was a way where I'd find the right advice to give them, I'd definitely do so. Up to this point, I'm at a loss of words. I feel like getting out of it, but I'd hate to see the person suffer. It starts to get to me each time I think of it. I don't know what to do with myself anymore. I'm feeling like poop now.
This is why I hate drama with a passion. I've been over with this a LONG time ago. This is such childish bullcrap. People come and drag you into their problems is something I have a problem with. There's a difference between helping someone with a problem and being a part of it. I didn't realize that I'd get caught being a part of it when I should have done something to ease the situation. What the hell can I do? I obviously didn't know what was going on. So I didn't want to take the risk of saying anything. Blah blah whatever. I want to run away from all of this even if it's not the best solution to do. I kind of want to ignore everything.
I wish I didn't answer that phone call otherwise I wouldn't have this bother me. Oh well, things like this just happens unexpectedly. I just wish it didn't happen to me this time. Although I dislike the person, the least I could have done is listen and I refused to be there. Wow, talk about being heartless, huh?
I hate that feeling only because as a person I feel useless towards them when comes to it. If there was a way where I'd find the right advice to give them, I'd definitely do so. Up to this point, I'm at a loss of words. I feel like getting out of it, but I'd hate to see the person suffer. It starts to get to me each time I think of it. I don't know what to do with myself anymore. I'm feeling like poop now.
This is why I hate drama with a passion. I've been over with this a LONG time ago. This is such childish bullcrap. People come and drag you into their problems is something I have a problem with. There's a difference between helping someone with a problem and being a part of it. I didn't realize that I'd get caught being a part of it when I should have done something to ease the situation. What the hell can I do? I obviously didn't know what was going on. So I didn't want to take the risk of saying anything. Blah blah whatever. I want to run away from all of this even if it's not the best solution to do. I kind of want to ignore everything.
I wish I didn't answer that phone call otherwise I wouldn't have this bother me. Oh well, things like this just happens unexpectedly. I just wish it didn't happen to me this time. Although I dislike the person, the least I could have done is listen and I refused to be there. Wow, talk about being heartless, huh?
i know how you feel!!!
ReplyDeleteI really like helping people with there problems cuz thats just who I am...but sometimes I can't form the right words and give the advice I want to and it sucks cuz I feel useless and all I can say is 'everything will be okay' or something like that D: some problems though I know can't be fixed with just some advice I try not to get involved with. If this issue that you're in is something you can't fix then you don't have to be a part of it. It's really up to you whether you want ot help or not :\